Your Love Specialist
Specializing in Self-Love & Tarot
Hi! If you're here you've probably heard about me and you're curious as to what I can do for you. Maybe you came across my site by accident. I welcome everyone with love and positive energy. If you have any questions please feel free to send me a message, otherwise I'll see you in one of my groups or at your reading.
I’m a professional tarot reader and a relationship coach that specializes in self-love. I’m a wife to an amazingly sweet husband, a mom to six kids between the ages of seven and twenty-six, and a Mimi to two rambunctious grandchildren. I live in a quiet neighborhood in the suburbs of Des Moines where my neighbors are all very friendly people. From the sounds of it I’ve got life all figured out, but the truth is I take a long time to make decisions, I’ve failed more times than I’ve succeeded, and although I’ve got a family I still do things as if I’m the only one effected by it.
When I was 16, I got my first set of tarot cards. I learned what they meant and the meanings of then seemed so easy to me. I read for myself and was amazed at the things I was finding out. I was accurate but wasn’t ready to read for other people yet. I struggled with if I was doing the right thing or not so I put them away.
When I was 24, I was in the middle of planning my first wedding. One because we already had 3 kids together and had been together for seven years, so everyone told us we should get married. (first mistake) Two because it was on the “checklist” of things I had to do before I turned 25. (second mistake) Fast forward through a marriage to a man who I wasn’t even sure was going to show up to another baby because I wanted to know what it was like to have a baby in a marriage and a divorce 10 years later.
Wait…what? You got divorced?
Yep. I ended up living in my dad’s basement keeping my schedule full, so I didn’t have to deal with the real culprit.
By keeping my schedule full of too much drinking, too much sex, and never being alone, I made sure I never had a dull moment. I never took the time to be myself and discover who I was. I didn’t take the time to grieve. I didn’t take time to myself and then I got pregnant.
Yep – me 36 years old was pregnant.
It was a horrible pregnancy because I was alone, and I had to deal with me for the first time in my life. There were lots of tears, a lot of anger, a whole lot of a bunch of emotions. I went through it all, but I got better. Then baby boy was born, and I got busy being a full-time mom to him and a part time mom to my other children. I went out occasionally after I had the baby. One weekend I went out for my cousin’s birthday and I was going to take a picture but there was a guy who wouldn’t move out of my way. More about him later.
Taking care of my children and myself became a priority. It was hard. I won’t even lie. I didn’t really know who I was, but I kept working to find out. I still had episodes of crying and anger, but it was all getting better.
Through all of this I had decided to pick my tarot cards back up. A year later I met a guy through one of my cousins and fast forward to now we are happily married living in the suburbs, raising our family, chasing our dreams, and living life. I continue to work on myself everyday because I’ve learned that the journey is never over.
Most days I’m good. I feel confident, unstoppable, and super desirable. (I mean have you seen me) I still have my days where I’m not so sure of myself. I feel like a cow and I’m continually down on myself. Those days are few and far between though. Taking the time to really find out who I was, what I wanted out of life made all the difference for me and I can help you find your way there too.
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P.S. - By the way remember the guy who wouldn’t move out of the way for my picture? He’s my husband. We didn’t talk that night, we didn’t even meet. Had I not been working on myself we probably would have never met. 😊
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